
My grateful thanks to Helen McCusker for sending me a copy of Alone by Daniel Schreiber translated by Ben Fergusson and to Fran Roberts at Reaktion Books for inviting me to be part of the blog tour. I’m very pleased to be able to share my review of Alone today.
Published by Reaktion Books on 1st August 2023, Alone is available for purchase here.
Alone

At no time before have so many people lived alone, and never has loneliness been so widely or keenly felt. Why, in a society of individualists, is living alone perceived as a shameful failure? And can we ever be happy on our own?
Drawing on personal experience, as well as philosophy and sociology, Daniel Schreiber explores the tension between the desire for solitude and freedom, and for companionship, intimacy and love. Along the way he illuminates the role that friendships play in our lives – can they be a response to the loss of meaning in a world in crisis?
A profoundly enlightening book, Alone explores how we want to live.
My Review of Alone
An insight into loneliness and living alone.
Alone was absolutely not what I was expecting. I thought I was going to read a novella, then, upon opening it, a series of short stories. I had not expected a personal and universal set of essays that are part memoir, part biography, part social history and which are an immersive, touching and insightful illustration of loneliness at all levels and the way we frequently live our modern lives. The elements relating to the recent Covid pandemic, for example, felt scalpel sharp and almost painful to read.
Indeed, Alone is not an easy read. Despite being beautifully translated by Ben Fergusson, the theme of loneliness is itself affecting, but this is a book firmly rooted in research as well as personal illustration so that there are many footnotes and references to consider. I found it best simply to read the eight chapters or essays and then reread them, this time taking account of the background aspects so that the initial flow of reading was not interrupted. One of the elements I so enjoyed about Alone is the way Daniel Schreiber took me back to my days of studying philosophy as part of my first degree. Not only did he provide an interesting and engaging book, that affords the reader recognition and resonance, but he reignited an interest that had lain dormant for forty years. I can envisage readers being so hooked and fascinated that Alone will take on a life and relevance beyond its covers, with further reading and considerable reflection to be had.
There is an issue with Alone for a heterosexual middle aged reader like me in a long and happy relationship. It’s very unsettling. Daniel Schreiber made me feel uncomfortable and slightly ashamed of myself for blithely meandering along, ignorant of so many more difficulties encountered by men (and women) with his experience. I had no idea, for example, that it wasn’t until 1990 that the World Health Organisation no longer defined homosexuality as a mental illness. There were aspects to this text that I found desperately sad and enraging. Reading Alone uncovered so much I’d previously been unaware of so that whilst I felt educated, it had the effect of making me feel rather ignorant and somewhat embarrassed by that ignorance. That said, there is both hope and optimism here even as it makes the reader reconsider their own life. Alone is by no means depressing, but it is a brutal and tender look at the way loneliness affects the individual.
If you’re looking for a light-hearted beach read that you’ll probably forget the moment the last page is turned, don’t read Alone. If, however, you want writing that looks at the human condition at all levels from the individual to the global, then Alone is exactly the right book. Intense, intelligent and interesting, Alone deserves several readings merely to scratch the surface of meaning and theme. I thought it was fascinating, being a book about, and for, the modern era. It won’t suit all readers, but unless you give it a try, you won’t know if it affects you as much as it impacted me.
About Daniel Schreiber

Daniel Schreiber is the author of Susan Sontag, the first complete biography of the intellectual icon (2014, translated by David Dollenmayer), as well as the highly praised and bestselling literary essays Nüchtern (2014) and Zuhause (2017). He lives in Berlin.
About Ben Fergusson

Ben Fergusson is an award-winning writer and translator. He is the author of three novels, most recently An Honest Man (2019). His debut, The Spring of Kasper Meier (2014), won the 2015 Betty Trask Prize, the HWA Debut Crown and was shortlisted for the Sunday Times Young Writer of the Year Award. In 2022, he published his first book of non-fiction, Tales from the Fatherland. He has translated numerous texts from German by writers including Daniel Schreiber, Daniel Kehlmann, Alain Claude Sulzer, Byung-Chul Han and Antje Wagner, and in 2020 won a Stephen Spender Prize for poetry in translation. He is a Senior Lecturer in Creative Writing at Cardiff Metropolitan University.
For further information visit Ben’s website and follow him on Twitter @BenFergusson and Instagram.
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